Mkangano Wachikhalidwe Pakati pa Makolo Osamuka ndi Madokotala aku America
Chinachitika ndi chiyani? Mbiri Yakale ya Kusamvana
Lia Lee ndi mwana wachi Hmong yemwe ali ndi khunyu ndipo ali pamtima pa mkangano wa chikhalidwe cha makolo ake osamukira kumayiko ena ndi madokotala aku America, omwe akuyesera kuti am'patse chithandizo chabwino kwambiri. Lia, yemwe ndi Nao Kao ndi mwana wa khumi ndi zinayi wa Foua Lee, wayamba kukomoka ali ndi miyezi itatu mlongo wake wamkulu atatseka chitseko. A Lees akukhulupirira kuti phokoso lalikululi linachititsa mantha kuti Lia atuluke m’thupi mwake, ndipo anamutengera ku Merced Community Medical Center (MCMC) ku Merced, California, komwe anamupeza ndi khunyu. Koma makolo a Lia adziŵa kale kuti ali ndi matenda a qaug dab peg, kutanthauza kuti “mzimu umakugwira ndipo umagwa pansi.” Mkhalidwewu ndi chizindikiro cha kugwirizana ndi dziko lauzimu ndipo ndi chizindikiro cha ulemu mu chikhalidwe cha Hmong. Ngakhale a Lee akuda nkhawa ndi thanzi la mwana wawo wamkazi, amasangalalanso kuti akhoza kukhala a txiv ayi, kapena asing’anga, akakhwima.
Madokotala amalembera mankhwala ovuta kwambiri, omwe makolo a Lia amavutika kuwatsatira. Kukomoka kumapitilirabe, ndipo a Lees akupitiliza kupita ndi Lia ku MCMC kuti akalandire chithandizo chamankhwala, komanso kuyezetsa. ine, kapena mankhwala apakhomo, monga kusisita ndalama, kupereka nsembe nyama ndi kubweretsa a txiv ayi kukumbukira moyo wake. Chifukwa chakuti a Lee amakhulupirira kuti mankhwala a Kumadzulo akupangitsa kuti Lia aipire kwambiri ndipo akulepheretsa njira zawo zachikhalidwe, amasiya kumupatsa monga momwe adawauzira. Lia akuyamba kuwonetsa zizindikiro za kuwonongeka kwa chidziwitso, ndipo dokotala wake wamkulu akuwuza a Lees ku chitetezo cha ana chifukwa chosamupatsa chisamaliro choyenera. Lia akumuika m'nyumba yoleredwa kumene amapatsidwa mankhwala mosamala, koma kukomoka kumapitirirabe.
Nkhani za Wina ndi Mnzake - Momwe Munthu Aliyense Amamvetsetsa Mkhalidwewo ndi Chifukwa Chiyani
Nkhani ya Madokotala a MCMC – Makolo Lia ndi vuto.
Udindo: Timadziŵa chimene chili chabwino kwa Lia, ndipo makolo ake ngwosayenera kumsamalira.
Chidwi:
Chitetezo / Chitetezo: Mkhalidwe wa Lia si kanthu koma matenda a ubongo, omwe angathe kuchiritsidwa mwa kupereka mankhwala ochulukirapo. Kugwidwa kwa Lia kwapitirira, kotero tikudziwa kuti a Lee sakumupatsa Lia chisamaliro chokwanira. Tikukhudzidwa ndi chitetezo cha mwanayo, ndichifukwa chake tafotokozera a Lees ku ntchito zoteteza ana.
Kudzidalira / Ulemu: A Lee akhala akutinyoza ife komanso ogwira ntchito m'chipatala. Amachedwa pafupifupi nthawi zonse zomwe amasankhidwa. Amati atipatsa mankhwala amene timawapatsa, koma amapita kwawo n’kukachita zosiyana kwambiri. Ndife akatswiri azachipatala ophunzitsidwa bwino, ndipo tikudziwa zomwe zili zabwino kwa Lia.
Nkhani ya Makolo a Lia - Madotolo a MCMC ndiye vuto.
Udindo: Madokotala sakudziwa chomwe chili chabwino kwa Lia. Mankhwala awo akupangitsa kuti vuto lake likhale loipitsitsa. Lia ayenera kuthandizidwa ndi athu ineb.
Chidwi:
Chitetezo / Chitetezo: Sitikumvetsa mankhwala a dokotala - mungachiritse bwanji thupi popanda kuchiza mzimu? Madokotala amatha kukonza matenda ena okhudza thupi, koma Lia akudwala chifukwa cha moyo wake. Lia akuukiridwa ndi mzimu woipa, ndipo mankhwala a dokotala akupangitsa kuti chithandizo chathu chauzimu chisagwire ntchito. Tikukhudzidwa ndi chitetezo cha mwana wathu. Anatilanda Lia kwa ife, ndipo tsopano akuipiraipira.
Kudzidalira / Ulemu: Madokotala sadziwa chilichonse chokhudza ife kapena chikhalidwe chathu. Lia atabadwa m’chipatalachi, nsapo yake inatenthedwa, koma inayenera kuikidwa m’manda kuti moyo wake ubwerere mmenemo pambuyo pa imfa yake. Lia akulandira chithandizo cha chinthu chomwe amachitcha "khunyu." Sitikudziwa tanthauzo lake. Lia ali pansi peg, ndipo madotolo sanavutikepo kutifunsa chomwe tikuganiza kuti chili cholakwika ndi iye. Iwo sangatimvetsere pamene tiyesera kufotokoza kuti mzimu wake ukugwidwa ndi mzimu woipa. Tsiku lina, mzimu wa Lia utayitanidwa kuti ubwerere ku thupi lake, adzakhala a txiv ayi ndipo zidzabweretsa ulemu waukulu ku banja lathu.
Zothandizira
Fadiman, A. (1997). Mzimu umakugwirani ndikugwa pansi: Mwana wa Hmong, madotolo ake aku America, ndi kusokonekera kwa zikhalidwe ziwiri.. New York: Farrar, Straus, ndi Giroux.
Pulojekiti ya Mediation: Phunziro la Nkhani la Mediation lopangidwa ndi Grace Haskin, 2018