Mkangano Wophimba Chisilamu mu Malo Odyera

Chinachitika ndi chiyani? Mbiri Yakale ya Kusamvana

Islamic Veil Conflict ndi mkangano womwe unachitika mu malo odyera ku New York pakati pa General Manager wa lesitilanti ndi Front-of-the-House Manager (wotchedwanso Maître d'hôtel). Woyang'anira Front-of-the-House ndi mtsikana wachisilamu yemwe ndi m'modzi mwa antchito akale kwambiri pa lesitilantiyi ndipo yemwe, chifukwa cha zikhulupiriro zake zamphamvu zachipembedzo ndi mfundo zake, adaloledwa pa nthawi yolembedwa ntchito ndi General Manager woyamba wa izi. malo odyera kuti azivala chophimba chake chachisilamu (kapena mpango) kuti agwire ntchito. Woyang'anira Front-of-the-House nthawi zambiri amadziwika mu lesitilantiyi ngati wogwira ntchito bwino kwambiri chifukwa cha machitidwe ake pantchito, ubale wabwino ndi ogwira nawo ntchito ndi makasitomala, komanso kudzipereka kuti akwaniritse zotsatira zabwino. Komabe, mwiniwake wa lesitilanti posachedwapa adalemba ganyu General Manager (wamwamuna) kuti alowe m'malo mwa General Manager yemwe adatuluka (yemwe adasiya ntchito yake kuti atsegule malo ake odyera mumzinda wina). Woyang'anira wamkulu watsopano adalembedwa ntchito masiku angapo kusanachitike kuwombera kwa anthu ambiri ku San Bernardino ku California. Popeza kuti zigawenga zidachitidwa ndi zigawenga ziwiri zachisilamu (mkazi m'modzi ndi mwamuna m'modzi), General Manager watsopano wa lesitilantiyo adalamula Mtsogoleri wa Front-of-the-House kuti asiye kuvala chophimba chake cha Chisilamu kuti agwire ntchito. Iye anakana kumvera lamulo la General Manager ndipo anapitiriza kuvala chophimba chake kuntchito, ponena kuti wakhala akuvala chophimba chake kumalo odyera kwa zaka zoposa 6 popanda vuto lililonse. Izi zinapangitsa kuti pakhale mkangano waukulu pakati pa antchito awiri omwe ali ndi udindo wapamwamba wa malo odyera - Woyang'anira Wamkulu watsopano kumbali imodzi, ndi Woyang'anira Patsogolo pa Nyumbayo.

Nkhani za Wina ndi Mnzake - momwe munthu aliyense amamvetsetsera zomwe zikuchitika komanso chifukwa chake

General Manager Nkhani – Iye ndiye vuto

Udindo: Woyang'anira Patsogolo Panyumba AYENERA KUYAMBIRA kuvala chophimba chake cha Chisilamu mu lesitilantiyi.

Chidwi:

Chitetezo / Chitetezo: Ndikufuna makasitomala athu kuti azimva otetezeka akabwera kudzadya ndi kumwa mu lesitilanti yathu. Kuwona manejala wachisilamu wophimbidwa mu lesitilanti yathu kungapangitse makasitomala kukhala osamasuka, osatetezeka, komanso okayikira. Kuwonjezeka kwa zigawenga zachisilamu, makamaka zigawenga pa malo odyera ku Paris, ndi kuwombera kwa anthu ambiri ku San Bernardino ku California, osatchula mantha omwe zigawenga za 9/11 zachititsa kuti anthu a ku New York awonongeke. makasitomala amamva kukhala osatetezeka akakuwonani mutaphimbidwa ndi chophimba chachisilamu mu lesitilanti yathu.

Zofuna Zathupi: Ine ndi banja langa timadalira ntchito yanga mu lesitilantiyi pa zosowa zathu zakuthupi - nyumba, zovala, chakudya, inshuwalansi ya umoyo, ndi zina zotero. Chifukwa chake, ndikufuna kuchita chilichonse kuti ndikwaniritse makasitomala athu kuti tisunge akale ndikulimbikitsa atsopano kuti abwerere. Makasitomala athu akasiya kubwera, malo odyera athu atseka. Sindikufuna kutaya ntchito.

Kukhala Wokondedwa / Ife / Gulu la Mzimu: Povala chophimba chanu cha Chisilamu, mumawoneka mosiyana kwambiri ndi tonsefe, ndipo ndikutsimikiza kuti mukumva kuti ndinu osiyana. Ine ndikufuna inu mumvere kuti ndinu wa pano; kuti ndinu gawo lathu; ndi kuti tonse ndife ofanana. Ngati mumavala monga ife, antchito ndi makasitomala sangayang'ane inu mosiyana.

Kudzidalira / Ulemu: Ndinalembedwa ntchito kuti ndilowe m'malo mwa General Manager wotuluka chifukwa cha mbiri yanga, luso langa, luso la utsogoleri, komanso kulingalira bwino. Monga Woyang'anira Wamkulu wa lesitilantiyi, ndikufunika kuti muvomereze udindo wanga, dziwani kuti ndine wolamulira komanso ndikuyang'anira kasamalidwe ka tsiku ndi tsiku, ntchito ndi zochitika za malo odyerawa. Ndikufunanso kuti muzindilemekeza komanso zisankho zomwe ndimapanga pofuna kusangalatsa malo odyera, antchito ndi makasitomala.

Kukula kwa Bizinesi / Phindu / Kudzipangitsa Wekha: Ndichidwi changa kuchita zonse zomwe ndingathe kuti ndikulitse malo odyerawa. Ngati malo odyerawo akukula ndikuyenda bwino, tonse tidzasangalala ndi mapinduwo. Ndikufunanso kukhalabe mu lesitilantiyi ndikuyembekeza kuti chifukwa cha mbiri yanga yabwino ya kasamalidwe, ndikhoza kukwezedwa kukhala woyang'anira dera.

Nkhani ya Woyang'anira Patsogolo Panyumba - Iye ndiye vuto:

Udindo: SINDISIYIKA kuvala chophimba changa cha Chisilamu mu lesitilantiyi.

Chidwi:

Chitetezo / Chitetezo: Kuvala chophimba changa cha Chisilamu kumandipangitsa kukhala wotetezeka pamaso pa Allah (Mulungu). Allah adalonjeza kuti adzawateteza akazi omvera mawu ake povala hijabu. Hijab ndi lamulo la Allah lodzilemekeza, ndipo ndiyenera kulitsatira. Komanso ndikapanda kuvala hijab ndilangidwa ndi makolo anga komanso anthu amdera langa. Hijab ndi chipembedzo changa komanso chikhalidwe changa. Hijab imanditetezanso ku zoopsa zomwe zingabwere kuchokera kwa amuna kapena akazi ena. Kotero, kuvala chophimba cha Chisilamu kumandipangitsa kukhala wotetezeka ndikundipatsa chidziwitso cha chitetezo ndi cholinga.

Zofuna Zathupi: Ndimadalira ntchito yanga mu lesitilantiyi pa zosowa zanga zakuthupi - nyumba, zovala, chakudya, inshuwalansi ya umoyo, maphunziro, ndi zina zotero. Ndili ndi mantha kuti ndikadzachotsedwa ntchito sindingathe kupeza zofunika zanga nthawi yomweyo.

Kukhala Wokondedwa / Ife / Gulu la Mzimu: Ndiyenera kumverera kuti ndalandiridwa mu lesitilantiyi mosasamala kanthu za chikhulupiriro changa kapena chikhulupiriro changa. Nthawi zina ndimadziona kuti ndisalidwa, ndipo antchito ndi makasitomala ambiri amadana nane. Ndikufuna kuti anthu azikhala omasuka ndikugwirizana nane momwe ndiriri. Sindine wachigawenga. Ndine mtsikana wamba wachisilamu yemwe amafuna kutsatira chipembedzo chake ndikusunga mfundo zomwe ndaleredwa nazo kuyambira ndili mwana.

Kudzidalira / Ulemu: Ndikufuna kuti muzilemekeza ufulu wanga walamulo wotsatira chipembedzo changa. Ufulu wachipembedzo unalembedwa mu Constitution ya United States. Chifukwa chake, ndikufuna kuti mulemekeze chisankho changa chovala hijab yanga. Mwa njira, hijab imandipangitsanso kukhala wokongola, wokondwa, wangwiro komanso womasuka. Ndikufunikanso kuti muvomereze ntchito zonse ndi kudzipereka komwe ndapanga kuti muchite bwino komanso kukula kwa malo odyerawa. Ndikufuna kuti mundizindikire monga munthu, mkazi wamba ngati akazi ena onse mu lesitilantiyi, osati ngati zigawenga.

Kukula kwa Bizinesi / Phindu / Kudzipangitsa Wekha: Kwa zaka 6 zapitazi, ndakhala ndikugwira ntchito yanga moona mtima komanso mwaukadaulo kuti ndizitha kukhalabe mu lesitilantiyi komanso kuti mwina ndikwezedwe ntchito yapamwamba. Choncho, cholinga changa ndikuthandizira kukula kwa malo odyerawa ndikuyembekeza kuti ndipitirizabe kupindula ndi ntchito yanga yolimbika.

Pulojekiti ya Mediation: Phunziro la Nkhani la Mediation lopangidwa ndi Basil Ugorji, 2016