Ukwati Wachisilamu-Buddhist ku Ladakh

Chinachitika ndi chiyani? Mbiri Yakale ya Kusamvana

Mayi Stanzin Saldon (tsopano Shifah Agha) ndi mkazi wachibuda wochokera ku Leh, Ladakh, mzinda umene anthu ambiri ndi Achibuda. Bambo Murtaza Agha ndi munthu wachisilamu wochokera ku Kargil, Ladakh, mzinda womwe anthu ambiri ndi Asilamu achi Shia.

Shifah ndi Murtaza anakumana mu 2010 ku kampu ku Kargil. Adadziwitsidwa ndi mchimwene wake wa Murtaza. Analankhulana kwa zaka zambiri, ndipo chidwi cha Shifah m’Chisilamu chinayamba kukula. Mu 2015, Shifah anachita ngozi ya galimoto. Anazindikila kuti amamukonda Murtaza ndipo anamufunsira.

Mu Epulo 2016, Shifah adasinthidwa kukhala Chisilamu, ndipo adatenga dzina loti "Shifah" (losinthidwa kuchokera ku Buddha "Stanzin"). Mu June/July 2016, adapempha amalume ake a Murtaza kuti awapangire ukwati mwachinsinsi. Anaterodi ndipo kenako banja la Murtaza linadziwa. Iwo sanasangalale nazo, koma atakumana ndi Shifah anamulandira m’banjamo.

Posakhalitsa mbiri ya ukwatiwo inafalikira ku banja la Shifah la Chibuda ku Leh, ndipo iwo anali okwiya kwambiri ndi ukwatiwo, ndi chakuti iye anakwatiwa ndi mwamuna (Muslim) popanda chilolezo chawo. Anawachezera mu December 2016, ndipo msonkhanowo unakhala wachiwawa komanso wachiwawa. Banja la Shifah linapita naye kwa ansembe Achibuda monga njira yosinthira malingaliro ake, ndipo anafuna kuti ukwatiwo uthetsedwe. M’mbuyomu, maukwati ena achisilamu ndi achibuda m’derali adathetsedwa chifukwa cha pangano lomwe lakhalapo kwa nthawi yayitali pakati pa anthu a m’maderawa kuti asakwatirane.

Mu July 2017, banjali linaganiza zokalembetsa ukwati wawo kukhoti kuti usathe. Shifah anauza banja lake izi mu September 2017. Iwo anayankha popita kupolisi. Kuphatikiza apo, Ladakh Buddhist Association (LBA) idapereka chigamulo kwa Kargil wolamulidwa ndi Asilamu, kuwachonderera kuti abwezeretse Shifah ku Leh. Mu Seputembala 2017, banjali linali ndi ukwati wachisilamu ku Kargil, ndipo banja la Murtaza linalipo. Palibe aliyense wa banja la Shifah yemwe analipo.

LBA tsopano yaganiza zopita kwa Prime Minister waku India, Narendra Modi, kuti afunse boma kuti lithane ndi zomwe akuwona kuti ndi vuto lomwe likukulirakulira ku Ladakh: Akazi achi Buddha akupusitsidwa kuti atembenukire ku Chisilamu kudzera muukwati. Akuwona kuti boma la Jammu ndi Kashmir lanyalanyaza vutoli mosalekeza, ndikuti potero, boma likuyesera kuchotsa ma Buddha m'derali.

Nkhani za Wina ndi Mnzake - Momwe Munthu Aliyense Amamvetsetsa Mkhalidwewo ndi Chifukwa Chiyani

Party 1: Shifah ndi Murtaza

Nkhani Yawo - Tili m'chikondi ndipo tiyenera kukhala omasuka kukwatirana popanda mavuto.

Udindo: Sitidzasudzulana ndipo Shifah sadzabwerera ku Buddhism, kapena kubwerera ku Leh.

Chidwi:

Chitetezo/Chitetezo: Ine (Shifah) ndikumva bwino ndikutonthozedwa ndi banja la Murtaza. Ndinkachita mantha ndi achibale anga nditawachezera, ndipo ndinachita mantha pamene munanditengera kwa wansembe wachibuda. Kusokonekera kwaukwati wathu kwapangitsa kukhala kovuta kukhala moyo wathu mwakachetechete, ndipo nthawi zonse timazunzidwa ndi atolankhani komanso anthu. Chiwawa chabuka pakati pa Abuda ndi Asilamu chifukwa cha ukwati wathu, ndipo pamakhala chiwopsezo chambiri. Ndiyenera kumva kuti chiwawa ndi kukangana uku zatha.

Zathupi: Monga okwatirana, tamanga nyumba pamodzi ndipo timadalirana wina ndi mzake pa zosowa za thupi lathu: nyumba, ndalama, ndi zina zotero.

Kukhala: Ine (Shifah) ndikumva kuvomerezedwa ndi Asilamu komanso banja la Murtaza. Ndimadziona ngati wokanidwa ndi gulu la Abuda ndi banja langa lomwe, chifukwa iwo achita moipa kwambiri ndi ukwati umenewu ndipo sanabwere ku ukwati wanga. Ndiyenera kudzimva ngati ndimakondedwabe ndi banja langa komanso ndi gulu lachibuda la Leh.

Kudzilemekeza/Kudzilemekeza: Ndife akuluakulu ndipo tili ndi ufulu wosankha tokha. Muyenera kutikhulupirira kuti tipanga zisankho zoyenera tokha. Asilamu ndi Abuda ayenera kudalirana ndi kuthandizana. Tiyenera kuona kuti zimene tasankha zokwatira kapena kukwatiwa zimalemekezedwa, ndiponso kuti chikondi chathu chimalemekezedwa. Ine (Shifah) ndikuyeneranso kumva kuti chisankho changa cholowa m’Chisilamu chinalingaliridwa bwino ndipo chinali chosankha changa ndekha, osati kuti ndinakakamizidwa kulowamo.

Kukula Kwa Bizinesi / Phindu / Kudzipangitsa Wekha: Tikukhulupirira kuti ukwati wathu ukhoza kupanga mlatho pakati pa mabanja achisilamu ndi achibuda, ndikuthandizira kulumikiza mizinda yathu iwiri.

Phwando 2: Banja la Chibuda la Shifah

Nkhani Yawo - Ukwati wanu ndi wonyoza chipembedzo chathu, miyambo, ndi banja lathu. Iyenera kuthetsedwa.

Udindo: Muyenera kusiya wina ndi mzake ndipo Shifah abwerere ku Leh, ndi kubwerera ku Buddhism. Iye ananyengedwa mu izi.

Chidwi:

Chitetezo/Chitetezo: Timamva kuopsezedwa ndi Asilamu tikakhala ku Kargil, ndipo timalakalaka kuti Asilamu achoke mumzinda wathu (Leh). Chiwawa chabuka chifukwa cha ukwati wanu, ndipo kuthetsedwa kungakhazikitse mtima anthu. Tiyenera kudziwa kuti mkanganowu udzathetsedwa.

Zathupi: Ntchito yathu ngati banja lako ndikukupezera (Shifah), ndipo watidzudzula posapempha chilolezo chathu pa ukwatiwu. Tiyenera kuona kuti mumavomereza udindo wathu monga makolo anu, ndi kuti zonse zimene takupatsani zimayamikiridwa.

Kukhala: Gulu la Abuda liyenera kukhala limodzi, ndipo lasweka. N’zochititsa manyazi kuona anzathu akudziwa kuti mwasiya chikhulupiriro ndi dera lathu. Tiyenera kudzimva kuti ndife olandiridwa ndi gulu lachibuda, ndipo tikufuna kuti adziwe kuti tinalera mwana wamkazi wabwino wachibuda.

Kudzilemekeza/Kudzilemekeza: Monga mwana wathu, ukanatipempha kuti tikulole kukwatiwa. Ife tatsitsa chikhulupiriro chathu ndi miyambo yathu kwa inu, koma inu mwachikana icho polowa m’Chisilamu ndi kutichotsa m’moyo wanu. Mwatinyoza, ndipo tifunika kumva kuti mukumvetsa zimenezo ndi kuti mukupepesa pochita zimenezo.

Kukula Kwa Bizinesi / Phindu / Kudzipangitsa Wekha: Asilamu akukhala amphamvu kwambiri m'dera lathu, ndipo Abuda ayenera kugwirizana pazifukwa zandale ndi zachuma. Sitingakhale ndi magulu kapena otsutsana. Ukwati wanu ndi kutembenuka kwanu kumapanga mawu okulirapo ponena za momwe Abuda amachitiridwa m'dera lathu. Azimayi ena a Chibuda ananyengedwa kuti akwatiwe ndi Asilamu, ndipo akazi athu akubedwa. Chipembedzo chathu chikutha. Tiyenera kudziwa kuti izi sizidzachitikanso, komanso kuti gulu lathu lachibuda likhalebe lolimba.

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