Khomo Lolakwika. Pansi Molakwika
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Mkanganowu ukuzungulira Botham Jean, bambo wazaka 26 yemwe adamaliza maphunziro awo ku yunivesite ya Harding ku Arkansas. Iye ndi mbadwa ya ku St. Lucia ndipo anali ndi udindo ndi kampani ya upangiri, ndipo anali wokangalika mu mpingo wakwawo monga mlangizi wophunzirira Baibulo komanso membala wa kwaya. Amber Guyger, wazaka 31 wapolisi wa ku Dallas Police department yemwe adagwira ntchito kwa zaka 4 ndipo amakhala ndi mbiri yakale yaku Dallas.
Pa Seputembara 8, 2018, Amber Guyger adabwera kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito ya maola 12-15. Atafika kunyumba imene ankakhulupirira kuti ndi nyumba yake, anaona kuti chitseko sichinatsekedwe ndipo nthawi yomweyo anakhulupirira kuti akubedwa. Pochita mantha, anawombera mfuti ziwiri ndikuwombera Botham Jean, kumupha. Amber Guyger adalumikizana ndi apolisi atamuwombera Botham Jean, ndipo malinga ndi iye, ndi pomwe adazindikira kuti sanali m'nyumba yoyenera. Atafunsidwa ndi apolisi, adanena kuti adawona mwamuna m'nyumba mwake ali ndi mtunda wa mamita 30 pakati pa awiriwo ndipo iye sanayankhe pa nthawi yake, adadziteteza. Botham Jean adafera m'chipatala ndipo malinga ndi magwero, Amber adagwiritsa ntchito njira zochepa za CPR pofuna kupulumutsa moyo wa Botham.
Zitatha izi, Amber Guyger adatha kuchitira umboni kukhoti lotseguka. Anali akukumana ndi zaka 5 mpaka 99 m'ndende chifukwa chopezeka ndi mlandu wopha munthu. Panali zokambirana ngati Castle Doctrine or Imani Zabwino Zanu malamulo anali kugwira ntchito koma popeza Amber analowa m'nyumba yolakwika, sanagwirizane ndi zomwe anachita kwa Botham Jean. Adathandizira zomwe zingachitike ngati zomwe zidachitika mosiyana, kutanthauza kuti B Botham adawombera Amber polowa mnyumba mwake.
M’bwalo lamilandu pa tsiku lomaliza la mlandu wakupha, mchimwene wake wa Botham Jean, Brandt, anakumbatira Amber kwautali kwambiri ndi kumukhululukira chifukwa chopha mbale wake. Iye anatchula za Mulungu n’kunena kuti akukhulupirira kuti Amber adzapita kwa Mulungu chifukwa cha zoipa zonse zimene mwina anachita. Ananenanso kuti akufuna zabwino kwa Amber chifukwa ndi zomwe Botham angafune. Anapereka lingaliro lakuti ayenera kupereka moyo wake kwa Kristu ndipo anafunsa Woweruza ngati angakhoze kukumbatira Amber. Woweruza analola. Kutsatira, Woweruza adapatsa Amber bible ndikumukumbatiranso. Anthu ammudzi sanasangalale kuona kuti lamulo lapita mofewa kwa Amber ndipo amayi a Botham Jean adanena kuti akuyembekeza kuti Amber atenga zaka 10 kuti adziganizire yekha ndi kusintha moyo wake.
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Brandt Jean (Mbale wa Botham)
Udindo: Chipembedzo changa chimandilola kuti ndikukhululukireni ngakhale kuti mumachitira m’bale wangayo.
Chidwi:
Chitetezo/Chitetezo: Sindikumva bwino ndipo izi zikanakhala aliyense, ngakhale ine ndekha. Panali mboni zomwe zinawona izi zikuchitika kwa mchimwene wanga ndipo zinagwira gawo la izi pojambula. Ndine woyamikira kuti anatha kujambula ndi kulankhula m’malo mwa mchimwene wanga.
Identity/Esteem: Ngakhale ndili wachisoni komanso wowawidwa ndi izi, ndimalemekeza kuti mchimwene wanga sangafune kuti ndimukwiyire mayiyu chifukwa cha kuperewera kwake. Ndiyenera kupitiriza kulemekeza ndi kutsatira mawu a Mulungu. Mchimwene wanga ndi ine ndife amuna a Khristu ndipo tidzapitiriza kukonda ndi kulemekeza onse kapena abale ndi alongo athu mwa Khristu.
Kukula/Kukhululuka: Popeza sindingathe kum’bwezera m’bale wanga, ndingatsatire chipembedzo changa poyesetsa kukhala mwamtendere. Ichi ndi chochitika chomwe ndi chophunzira ndipo chimamulola kukhala ndi nthawi yoti adziganizire yekha; zipangitsa kuti zochitika zofananira zizichitikanso.
Amber Guyger - Mtsogoleri
Udindo: Ndinachita mantha. Anali wolowerera, ndinaganiza.
Chidwi:
Chitetezo/Chitetezo: Monga wapolisi timaphunzitsidwa kuteteza. Popeza kuti nyumba zathu zili ndi mawonekedwe ofanana, ndizovuta kuwona zomwe zingatanthauze kuti nyumbayi sinali yanga. Mkati mwa nyumbayo munali mdima. Komanso, kiyi yanga inagwira ntchito. Kiyi yogwira ntchito ikutanthauza kuti ndikugwiritsa ntchito loko yoyenera ndi kuphatikiza makiyi.
Identity/Esteem: Monga wapolisi, pali malingaliro oyipa okhudza udindo wonse. Nthawi zambiri pamakhala mauthenga owopsa ndi zochita zomwe zimayimira kusakhulupirira kwa nzika m'munda. Popeza kuti ndi gawo la umunthu wanga, ndimakhala wosamala nthawi zonse.
Kukula/Kukhululuka: Ndikuthokoza maphwando chifukwa cha kukumbatirana ndi zinthu zomwe andipatsa ndikukonzekera kuwonetsera. Ndili ndi chiganizo chachifupi ndipo nditha kukhala pansi ndi zomwe ndachita ndikulingalira zosintha zomwe zingatheke mtsogolomu kodi ndiloledwa udindo wina pazamalamulo.
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