Kusawirirana Kwetsika Pakati Pevabereki Vanobva Kune Vatorwa uye Vanachiremba veAmerica
Chii chaitika? Nhoroondo Yekukonana
Lia Lee mwana wechiHmong ane pfari uye ari pakati pemakakatanwa etsika aya pakati pevabereki vake vakabva kune dzimwe nyika navanachiremba vokuAmerica, vose vari kuedza kumupa rubatsiro rwakanakisisa. Lia, anova Nao Kao uye mwana wechigumi nemana waFoua Lee, akatanga kubatwa nepfari aine mwedzi mitatu yokukura mushure mekunge hanzvadzi yake huru yavhara gonhi. VaLees vanotenda kuti ruzha rwakanyanya rwakavhundutsa mweya waLia kubva mumuviri wake, uye anoendeswa kuMerced Community Medical Center (MCMC) kuMerced, California, uko akabatwa nepfari yakakomba. Vabereki vaLia, zvisinei, vakatoziva chirwere chake seqaug dab peg, zvinoreva kuti “mudzimu unokubata wowira pasi.” Mamiriro acho chiratidzo chekubatana kunzvimbo yemweya uye chiratidzo chekukudzwa mutsika dzeHmong. Kunyange zvazvo vaLee vane hanya nehutano hwemwanasikana wavo, vanofarawo kuti anogona kuva a txiv neib, kana kuti shaman, paanokura.
Vanachiremba vanonyora chirongwa chakaoma chekurapa, icho vabereki vaLia vanonetseka kutevedzera. Kubatwa kunoramba kuchienderera mberi, uye vaLees vanoramba vachiendesa Lia kuMCMC kunorapwa, pamwe nekudzidzira. neib, kana mishonga yechivanhu kumba, sekukwesha mari, kubaira mhuka nekuunza a txiv neib kurangarira mweya wake. Nekuti vaLee vanotenda kuti mushonga wekuMadokero uri kuita kuti mamiriro aLia anyanye kushata uye ari kutadzisa maitiro avo echivanhu, vanorega kumupa sekurairwa. Lia anotanga kuratidza zviratidzo zvekukanganisika kwepfungwa, uye chiremba wake wekutanga anoshuma maLees kune masevhisi ekudzivirira vana nekusamupa rubatsiro rwakakwana. Lia anoiswa mumusha unochengeterwa vabereki uko anopihwa mushonga wake zvine hungwaru, asi pfari inoenderera mberi.
Nyaya Dzemumwe nemumwe - Manzwisisiro anoita Munhu Mumwe nemumwe Mamiriro ezvinhu uye Sei
MCMC Vanachiremba Nyaya – Vabereki vaLia ndivo dambudziko.
Nzvimbo: Tinoziva chakanakira Lia, uye vabereki vake havana kukodzera kumutarisira.
Nharaunda:
Chengetedzo / Chengetedzo: Mamiriro eLia haasi chinhu kunze kwechirwere chetsinga, chinogona kurapwa chete nekunyora mishonga yakawanda. Kubatwa kwaLia kwaenderera mberi, saka tinoziva kuti vaLee havasi kupa Lia nehanya yakakwana. Isu tine hanya nekuchengetedzeka kwemwana, ndosaka takazivisa maLees kune masevhisi ekudzivirira vana.
Kuzviremekedza / Kuremekedza: Vana Lee vanga vasina rukudzo kwatiri nevashandi vemuchipatara. Vanonoka kusvika kunenge kwese kugadzwa kwavo. Vanoti vachatipa mushonga watinonyora, asi voenda kumba voita zvakasiyana zvachose. Isu tiri nyanzvi dzekurapa dzakadzidziswa, uye tinoziva chakanakira Lia.
Nyaya yevabereki vaLia – Vanachiremba veMCMC ndivo dambudziko.
Nzvimbo: Vanachiremba havazivi chakanakira Lia. Mushonga wavo urikuita kuti anyanye kuipa. Lia inoda kurapwa neyedu neeb.
Nharaunda:
Chengetedzo / Chengetedzo: Hatinzwisise mishonga yachiremba – ungarapa muviri sei usingarape mweya? Vanachiremba vanogona kugadzirisa zvimwe zvirwere zvinosanganisira muviri, asi Lia ari kurwara nekuda kwemweya wake. Lia ari kurwiswa nemweya wetsvina, uye mushonga wachiremba uri kuita kuti kurapwa kwedu kwemweya kusashande. Isu tine hanya nekuchengetedzwa kwemwana wedu. Vakatora Lia kwatiri, uye iye zvino ari kuwedzera.
Kuzviremekedza / Kuremekedza: Vanachiremba havana chavanoziva nezvedu kana tsika dzedu. Apo Lia akaberekerwa muchipatara ichi, placenta yake yakapiswa, asi yaifanira kuvigwa kuitira kuti mweya wake udzoke kwairi pashure pokunge afa. Lia ari kurapwa chimwe chinhu chavanodaidza kuti "pfari." Hatizivi kuti zvinorevei. Lia ane qaug dab peg, uye vanachiremba havana kumbonetseka kutibvunza zvatinofunga kuti hazvina kunaka paari. Havangatiteerere kana tikaedza kutsanangura kuti mweya wake uri kurwiswa nemweya wakaipa. Rimwe zuva, mweya waLia pawakashevedzwa kuti udzoke kumuviri wake, achange ari txiv neib uye zvichaunza rukudzo rukuru kumhuri yedu.
References
Fadiman, A. (1997). Mweya unokubata wowira pasi: Mwana weHmong, vanachiremba vake vekuAmerica, uye kudhumhana kwetsika mbiri.. New York: Farrar, Straus, uye Giroux.
Mediation Project: Mediation Case Study yakagadzirwa na Nyasha Haskin, 2018
