Kudyidzana Kwezvitendero: Kukokwa Kwezvitendero Zvose
Kudyidzana Kwezvitendero: Kukokwa Kwezvitendero Zvose paICERM Radio yakaburitswa musi weMugovera, Nyamavhuvhu 13, 2016 @ 2 PM Eastern Time (New York).
2016 Summer Lecture Series
Musoro: "Kudyidzana Kwezvitendero: Kukokwa Kwezvitendero Zvose"
Mudzidzisi Wekushanya: Elizabeth Sink, Dhipatimendi reKutaurirana Zvidzidzo, Colorado State University
Zvinyorwa:
Hurukuro iyi inotarisa pane chimwe chezvinhu zvikuru izvo zvatinoudzwa kuti USAFANISE kutaura nezvazvo muhurukuro ine hunhu. Kwete, kunyangwe riri gore resarudzo, hurukuro yacho haisi yezvematongerwo enyika, kana mari. Elizabeth Sink anotaura nezvechitendero, kunyanya, kubatana kwezvitendero. Anotanga nekugovera nyaya yake uye nechikamu chake chaainacho mubasa iri. Zvadaro, anogovera nzira iyo vadzidzi vepacampus yake paColorado State University vari kuyambuka neushingi mitsara yekutenda nekutenda uye nekushandura nyaya dzatinowanzonzwa nezvechitendero muUS America.
Zvinyorwa zveLecture
Chidzidzo changu nhasi ndechimwe chezvinhu zvikuru izvo zvatinoudzwa kuti USAFANISE kutaura nezvazvo muhurukuro ine hunhu. Aiwa, nyangwe riri gore resarudzo, handisi kuzotarisa zvematongerwo enyika, kana mari. Uye kunyangwe zvingave zvakanyanya kunakidza, hazvisi kuzova zvepabonde zvakare. Nhasi, ndichataura nezvechitendero, kunyanya, kubatana kwezvitendero. Ndichatanga nekugovera nyaya yangu uye nechikamu chandinacho mubasa iri. Zvadaro, ndichagovera kuti vadzidzi vepacampus yangu paColorado State University vari kuyambuka sei kutenda nekutenda uye nekushandura nyaya dzatinowanzonzwa nezvechitendero muUS America.
Muupenyu hwangu, ndakabatikana nezvakawanda, zvinoita sezvinopesana, zviziviso zvechitendero. Muchidimbu chipfupi sezvinobvira: kusvika pazera re8, ndakanga ndisina hukama, ndakakweverwa nemamwe madonati makuru kuchechi yeshamwari yangu. Ndakabva ndangofunga kuti kuchurch ndiyo yangu. Ndakakweverwa nemapoka evanhu vaiimba pamwe chete, tsika dzakaungana, uye vachiedza zvechokwadi kuita kuti nyika ive nzvimbo iri nani. Ndakapfuurira kuva muKristu akazvipira, ipapo chaizvoizvo, muKaturike. Kuzivikanwa kwangu kwese munzanga kwakabva muchiKristu changu. Ndaienda kuchechi kakawanda pavhiki, ndichibatsira kutanga boka revechidiki vekuchikoro chesekondari pamwe chete nevezera rangu, uye ndaibatsira nharaunda yedu mumabasa akasiyana-siyana. Zvinhu zvikuru. Asi apa ndipo pakatanga rwendo rwangu rwezvemweya kutora nzira yakashata.
Kwemakore akawanda, ndakasarudza kuomerera kumuitiro wakasimba kwazvo. Nenguva isipi ndakatanga kunzwira tsitsi vanhu vasiri maKristu: ndichiramba zvavanotenda uye kazhinji ndichiedza kuvatendeutsa - kuvaponesa kubva kwavari. Sezvineiwo, ndakarumbidzwa nekupihwa mubairo nekuda kwehunhu hwakadai, (uye ndiri mwana wekutanga kuzvarwa), saka izvi zvakangosimbisa kutsunga kwangu. Makore mashoma gare gare, mukati merwendo rwekudzidzisa hushumiri hwevechidiki, ndakava neruzivo rwakadzama kwazvo rwekurega kutendeuka, apo ndakaziva nezvemunhu ane pfungwa nhete uye ane mwoyo mutete wandakanga ndava. Ndakanzwa ndakuvadzwa uye ndakavhiringidzika, uye ndichitevera pendulum huru youpenyu, ndakapfuurira kupomera rudzidziso nokuda kwokukuvadzwa kwangu pamwe chete nouipi huri hwose munyika.
Makore gumi pashure pokunge ndasiya chitendero, ndichimhanya uye ndichizhambatata, ndakazviwana ndava kuda “chechi” zvakare. Iri rakanga riri piritsi diki diki rekuti ndimedze kunyanya sezvo ndakazviona semunhu asingatendi kuti kuna Mwari. Taura nezve imwe cognitive dissonance! Ndakaona kuti ndaitsvaga chinhu chandakanga ndakweverwa kwachiri pazera 8 - boka rine tariro revanhu vari kutsvaga kuita kuti nyika ive nzvimbo iri nani.
Saka makore makumi matatu mushure mekunge ndadya chechi yangu yekutanga donut uye kufamba nerwendo rwakaoma rwemweya kusvika zvino - ini pari zvino ndinoona seHumanist. Ndinosimbisa mutoro wevanhu kurarama hupenyu hune chinangwa uye hune hunhu hunokwanisa kuwedzera kune kunaka kukuru kwevanhu, pasina fungidziro yaMwari. Chaizvoizvo, izvi zvakafanana neasingatendi kuti kuna Mwari, asi ane hunhu hunokandwa mukati.
Uye, uzvitende usazvitenda, ndiri muendi-chechi zvakare, asi “chechi” yave kutaridzika zvakasiyana zvino. Ndawana imba itsva yemweya muUnitarian Universalist Church, kwandinodzidzira padivi peboka revanhu vakasarudzwa vanozviti "vanowana chitendero," maBhudha, vasingatendi kuti kuna Mwari, maKristu akazvarwa patsva, maPagani, maJuda, vanotenda kuti Mwari haazivikanwi, nezvimwewo. kwete kusungwa nechitendero, asi nemaitiro uye nezviito.
Chikonzero chandinogovera nyaya yangu newe ndechekuti kupedza nguva mune izvi zvakasiyana-siyana zvakandikurudzira kuti nditange chirongwa chekubatana kwezvitendero payunivhesiti yangu.
Saka ndiyo nyaya yangu. Pane chidzidzo - Chitendero chinobatanidza vanhu zvakanakisisa uye zvakaipisisa zvinogona kuitika - uye hukama hwedu, uye kunyanya hukama hwedu mumitsara yekutenda iyo inorereka zvikero kune zvakanaka. Kana ichienzaniswa nedzimwe nyika dzakabudirira, US ndeimwe yevanonamata zvakanyanya - makumi matanhatu muzana evaAmerica vanoti chitendero chavo chakakosha kwavari. Vanhu vazhinji vezvitendero vakaisa mari yechokwadi mukuita kuti nyika ive nzvimbo iri nani. Muchokwadi, hafu yeAmerica yekuzvipira uye philanthropy yakavakirwa mune zvechitendero. Zvinosuruvarisa, vazhinji vedu takasangana nechitendero sechinodzvinyirira uye chinoshungurudza. Kubva kare, chitendero chave chichishandiswa nenzira dzinotyisa kukurira vanhu mutsika dzose.
Zvatinoona zvichiitika iye zvino muUS ishanduko uye kuwedzera gaka (kunyanya mune zvematongerwo enyika) pakati peavo vanozviona sevanonamata, nevasingadaro. Nekuda kweizvozvo, pane katsika, kupomera rimwe divi, kuenderera mberi nekusarurana pamusoro peumwe neumwe, uye kuzviparadzanisa isu kubva kune mumwe nemumwe, izvo zvinongowedzera kupatsanura. Ichi chifananidzo chenguva yedu yazvino uye HAISI hurongwa hunotungamira kune ramangwana rine hutano.
Ini zvino ndoda kunangisa pfungwa dzedu, kwekanguva, kudivi re“ZVIMWE” rechikamu ichocho, uye kukuzivisai vanhu vezvitendero vari kukura zvakanyanya muAmerica. Ichi chikamu chinowanzo kunzi "Mweya-Asi-Kwete-Chitendero, "usina hukama," kana "Hapana," rudzi rwezwi rekubata rinosanganisira, agnostics, asingatendi kuti kuna Mwari, vanhu, vemweya, vahedheni, uye avo vanoti "hapana chinhu mu kunyanya.” Iyo "isina kubatanidzwa 1/5th yevaAmerica, uye 1/3rd yevakuru vari pasi pemakore makumi matatu, havana hukama mune zvechitendero, iyo yepamusoro muzana yakambocherechedzwa muPew Research nhoroondo.
Parizvino, vangangoita makumi manomwe muzana veAmerica vekuAmerica vanozivisa sevaKristu, uye ini ndichangobva kutaura nezve makumi maviri muzana vanozivisa se "vasina hukama." Imwe 70% inosanganisira avo vanozivisa semaJuda, maMuslim, maBuddha, maHindu nevamwe. Kusarurana kuripo pakati pezvikamu izvi, uye kazhinji zvinotitadzisa kutenda kuti tine chero chinhu chakafanana nemumwe. Ndinogona kutaura kune izvi pachangu. Ndichigadzirira hurukuro iyi, pandaizo“zvibudisa pakunamata” semunhu asiri muKristu, ndakatarisana neizvi zvinyadzi. Ndakanzwa kunyara kuti ndakanga ndachinja kuvimbika kwangu, uye zvino ndava kuverengwa pakati pevaya vandaimboshora, vainzwira tsitsi, uye vaidheererwa. Ndakanzwa kutya kuti mhuri yangu nenzanga yandakakurira zvaizoodzwa mwoyo mandiri uye ndichitya kuti ndaizorasikirwa nokuvimbika pakati peshamwari dzangu dzechitendero. Uye mukutarisana nemanzwiro aya, ndinogona kuona iye zvino kuti ndinogara ndichiwedzera kushingaira mukuedza kwangu kwese kusanganisa zvitendero, kuitira kuti kana kana iwe ukawana pamusoro pekuzivikanwa kwangu, iwe unozozvitarisa nemutsa, nekuda kwebasa rose rakanaka randinoita. ita. (Ndiri 20st wakazvarwa, unogona kuudza)?
Ndakanga ndisingarevi kuti hurukuro iyi ishanduke kuva ini “kubuda mune zvechitendero” pachangu. Kusagadzikana uku kunotyisa. Sezvineiwo, ndanga ndiri murairidzi wekutaura paruzhinji kwemakore gumi nemaviri apfuura - ndinodzidzisa nezvekuderedza kunetseka, uye zvakadaro ndiri padanho rekurwa-kana-ndege rekutya izvozvi. Asi, manzwiro aya anosimbisa kukosha kweshoko iri.
Kwese kwaunozviwana uri pane zvemweya, ndinokudenha kuti ukudze zvaunotenda uye uzive zvauri kurerekera, uye zvakanyanya kukosha - usaite kutenda kwako uye kusarura kwako kukutadzise kuyambuka mitsara yekutenda nekuita. HAZVISI mukufarira kwedu (pachedu kana pamwe chete) KUGARA munzvimbo ino yekupomera uye yekuzviparadzanisa nevamwe. Kuumba hukama nevanhu vezvitendero zvakasiyana, nenhamba, kunoita kuti pave nemhedzisiro yakanaka mukupodza kupokana.
Saka ngationei kuti tingatanga sei kuita zvine ruremekedzo.
Chaizvoizvo, kubatana kwezvitendero / kana kudyidzana kunoenderana nemusimboti wekuwanda kwezvitendero. Sangano renyika rinodaidzwa kuti Interfaith Youth Core, rinotsanangura kuva nezvitendero zvakawanda se:
- Kuremekedza vanhu vakasiyana siyana vezvitendero nevasiri vezvitendero,
- Hukama hunokurudzirana pakati pevanhu vemarudzi akasiyana,
- uye Chiito chakajairika chekubatsira kune vese.
Kudyidzana kwezvitendero itsika yeChitendero chakawanda. Kugamuchira mirangariro yezvizhinji kunobvumira kupfava pane kuoma kwemaonero. Basa iri rinotidzidzisa unyanzvi hwokufamba kupfuura kungoshivirirawo zvako, rinotidzidzisa mutauro mutsva, uye nawo tinokwanisa kuchinja nyaya dzinodzokororwa dzatinonzwa munhau, kubva pakurwisana kuenda kukushandira pamwe. Ndinofara kugovera nyaya inotevera yekubudirira kwezvitendero zvakasiyana, inoitika pachikoro changu.
Ini ndiri murairidzi wepakoreji mundima yeCommunication Studies, saka ndakaenda kumadhipatimendi akati wandei payunivhesiti yangu yeruzhinji, ndichikumbira rutsigiro rwekosi yedzidzo pamusoro pekubatana kwezvitendero, pakupedzisira, muchirimo cha2015, nharaunda dzeyunivhesiti yedu dzinodzidza kurarama dzakagamuchira chidzidzo changu. . Ndinofara kushuma kuti makirasi maviri ezvitendero zvakasiyana, akanyoresa vadzidzi 25, akaedzwa semesita yapfuura. Zvikurukuru, vadzidzi vari muaya makirasi, anoziviswa seEvangelical Christian, Cultural Catholic, “kinda” Mormon, Atheist, Agnostic, Muslim, uye vamwe vashomanene. Ava munyu wenyika, vanoita zvakanaka.
Tose takaenda kudzimba dzokunamatira dzechiIslam nedzechiJudha. Takadzidza kubva kuvakurukuri vevaenzi vakagovana matambudziko avo uye mafaro. Takasimudzira nguva dzekunzwisisa kwaidiwa zvakanyanya pamusoro petsika. Semuyenzaniso, imwe nguva yekirasi, mbiri dzeshamwari dzangu huru dzeChechi yaJesu Kristu yaVatendi vaMazuva Ekupedzisira, vakauya vakapindura mubvunzo wega wega wavakabvunzwa neboka rangu raidisa kwazvo revana vane makore gumi nemapfumbamwe. Izvi hazvireve kuti munhu wese abuda mukamuri achibvumirana, zvinoreva kuti tabuda mumba nekunzwisisa chaiko. Uye nyika inoda zvimwe zvacho.
Vadzidzi vakafunga mibvunzo yakaoma senge “Zvitendero zvese zvinodzika kuchinhu chimwe chete here?” (Kwete!) uye “Tinofambira mberi sei isu tangoona kuti hatigone zvose zviri zviviri chokwadi?"
Sekirasi, takashumirawo. Tichibatsirana nemamwe mapoka ezvitendero evadzidzi, takatanga sevhisi ye“Interfaith Thanksgiving” yakabudirira. Nerutsigiro rwemari rwenzvimbo yedu yeFort Collins Interfaith Council nemamwe masangano, vadzidzi vakabika chikafu chekutenda chekutenda chekosher, chisina gluten chine vegan sarudzo dzevanhu vanopfuura zana nemakumi matanhatu.
Pakupera kwemesita, vadzidzi vakapindura:
“…Handina kumboziva kuti kune vanhu vakawanda vasingadaviri kuna Mwari, nekuti handina kuziva kuti vanhu vasingadaviri kuna Mwari vaingofanana neni. Nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero chisinganzwisisike, ndakafunga kuti munhu asingatendi kuvapo kwaMwari aizoratidzika somusayendisiti anopenga.”
"Ndakashamisika kutsamwira vandinodzidza navo pamusoro pezvimwe zvezvinhu zvavanotenda mazviri ... Ichi chimwe chinhu chakataura neni nokuti ndakaona kuti ndakanga ndakarerekera kupfuura zvandaifunga."
“Kudyidzana kwakandidzidzisa kurarama pazambuko riri pakati pezvitendero zvakasiyana uye kwete kudivi riri kure rechimwe chete.”
Mukupedzisira, chirongwa ichi chakabudirira kubva pamaonero evadzidzi uye manejimendi; uye zvichaenderera mberi, netarisiro yekuwedzera mumakore mashoma anotevera.
Ndinovimba kuti ndasimbisa nhasi, kuti zvinopesana nezvinodavirwa nevakawanda, chitendero chinhu chatinofanira kutaura nezvazvo. Apo patinotanga kuona kuti vanhu vekutenda kweSE vari kuita nepavanogona napo kurarama hupenyu hwetsika nehunhu, PANE panochinja nyaya. Tiri nani pamwe chete.
Ndinokupikisa kuti uite shamwari itsva nemunhu ane zvitendero zvakasiyana zvemweya kupfuura iwe uye pamwe chete, shandura nyaya. Uye usakanganwa madonuts!
Elizabeth Sink anobva kuMidwest, kwaakapedza kudzidza muna 1999 aine Bachelors degree muInterdisciplinary Communication Studies kubva kuAquinas College, kuGrand Rapids, Michigan. Akapedza Masters Degree muCommunication Studies paColorado State University muna 2006 uye anga achidzidzisa ipapo kubva ipapo.
Kudzidzira kwake kwazvino, kudzidzisa, chirongwa uye kugadziridzwa kwekharikhulamu kunotarisisa mamiriro edu echivanhu / magariro / ezvematongerwo enyika uye kufambira mberi nzira dzekutaurirana pakati pevanhu vakasiyana vezvitendero / vasiri vechitendero. Anofarira nzira iyo dzidzo yepamusoro-soro inobata nayo kukurudzira kwevadzidzi kubatanidzwa munharaunda dzavanogara, maonero maererano nemaonero avo akarerekera uye/kana akapokana, kunzwisisa kuzvimiririra, uye maitiro ekufunga kwakadzama.
