Iyo Islamic Veil Conflict muRestaurant

Chii chaitika? Nhoroondo Yekukonana

The Islamic Veil Conflict iko kunetsana kwesangano kwakaitika murestaurant yeNew York pakati perestaurant General Manager neFront-of-the-House Manager (anozivikanwawo seMaître d'hôtel). The Front-of-the-House Manager mukadzi wechidiki wechiMuslim anove mumwe wevashandi vekare veresitorendi iyi uye uyo, nekuda kwekutenda kwake kwakasimba kwechitendero nehunhu, akabvumidzwa panguva yebasa neMutungamiriri Mukuru wekutanga weiyi. resitorendi kuti apfeke chifukidziro chake cheIslam (kana sikavha) kuti ashande. Maneja weFront-of-the-House anowanzoonekwa muresitorendi iyi semushandi akanakisa nekuda kwehunhu hwake hwebasa, hukama hwakanaka nevaanoshanda navo uye vatengi, uye kuzvipira kuwana mhedzisiro yakanaka. Nekudaro, muridzi weresitorendi nguva pfupi yadarika akahaya General Manager mutsva (murume) kutsiva General Manager aibuda (uyo akasiya basa kuti avhure resitorendi yake mune rimwe guta). General Manager mutsva akapinzwa basa mazuva mashoma kupfura kwevanhu vakawanda kuSan Bernardino muCalifornia. Sezvo kurwiswa kwehugandanga kwakaitwa nevaviri vechiIslam vanopfurikidza mwero (mukadzi mumwe chete nemurume mumwe), General Manager mutsva weresitorendi akaraira Maneja weFront-of-the-House kuti arege kupfeka chifukidziro chake cheIslam kuti ashande. Akaramba kuteerera murayiro waManeja Mukuru uye akaramba akapfeka jira rake kubasa, achiti akanga apfeka jira rake kuresitorendi kwemakore anopfuura matanhatu pasina dambudziko. Izvi zvakakonzera kukakavara kwakakomba pakati pevashandi vaviri vane chinzvimbo chepamusoro muresitorendi - General Manager mutsva kune rumwe rutivi, uye Front-of-the-House Manager kune rimwe.

Nyaya dzemumwe nemumwe - kuti munhu wega wega anonzwisisa sei mamiriro ezvinhu uye nei

General Manager's nyaya – Iye ndiye dambudziko

Nzvimbo: Maneja weFront-of-the-House ANOFANIRA KUMIRIRA kupfeka vheiri yake yechiIslam muresitorendi iyi.

Nharaunda:

Chengetedzo / Chengetedzo: Ndinoda kuti vatengi vedu vanzwe vakachengeteka pavanouya kuzodya nekunwa muresitorendi yedu. Kuona maneja wechiMuslim akafukidzwa muresitorendi yedu kunogona kuita kuti vatengi vanzwe kusagadzikana, kusachengeteka, uye kunyumwa. Kuwedzera kwekurwiswa kwehugandanga hweIslam, kunyanya kurwiswa kwegandanga muresitorendi muParis, uye kupfura kwevanhu vakawanda muSan Bernardino muCalifornia, tisingatauri kutya kuti 9/11 kurwisa kwemagandanga kwakatsamwisa mupfungwa dzeNew Yorkers. vatengi vanonzwa kusachengeteka kana vakakuona wakafukidzwa nechidzitiro cheMuslim muresitorendi yedu.

Physiological Zvinodiwa: Mhuri yangu neni tinovimba nebasa rangu muresitorendi iyi kune zvatinoda zvepanyama - pekugara, zvipfeko, chikafu, inishuwarenzi yehutano, zvichingodaro. Saka, ndinoda kuita zvese kugutsa vatengi vedu kuitira kuchengetedza zvekare uye kukurudzira vatsva kuti vadzoke. Kana vatengi vedu vakamira kuuya, yedu yekudyira inovhara. Handidi kurasikirwa nebasa rangu.

Belongingness / Isu / Team Spirit: Nekupfeka chidzitiro chako cheIslam, unotaridzika zvakasiyana zvachose nesu tose, uye ndine chokwadi chekuti unonzwa kuti wakasiyana. Ndinoda kuti unzwe kuti uri pano; kuti uri chikamu chedu; uye kuti tese takafanana. Kana iwe ukapfeka sesu, vese vashandi nevatengi havakutarise zvakasiyana.

Kuzviremekedza / Kuremekedza: Ndakapinzwa basa kuti nditsive Mutungamiriri Mukuru aibuda nekuda kwerekodhi yangu, ruzivo, hunyanzvi hwehutungamiriri, uye kutonga kwakanaka. SaManeja Mukuru weresitorendi ino, ndinoda kuti ubvume chinzvimbo changu, uzive kuti ndiri kutonga uye ndinotarisira manejimendi ezuva nezuva, kushanda uye zviitiko zveresitorendi ino. Ini zvakare ndinoda kuti iwe undiremekedze uye sarudzo dzandinoita kuitira zvakanakira resitorendi, vashandi nevatengi.

Bhizinesi Kukura / Purofiti / Kuzvigadzirisa: Chido changu kuita zvese zvandaigona kurima resitorendi iyi. Kana iyo resitorendi ikakura uye ikabudirira, isu tese tichanakidzwa nemabhenefiti. Ndinodawo kuramba ndiri muresitorendi iyi ndichitarisira kuti nerekodhi rangu rakanaka remaneja, ndinogona kukwidziridzwa kuva maneja wedunhu.

Nyaya yaManeja weKumberi-kwe-Imba - Iye ndiye dambudziko:

Nzvimbo: HANDICHAREGA kupfeka vheiri yangu yechiIslam muresitorendi iyi.

Nharaunda:

Chengetedzo / Chengetedzo: Kupfeka chidzitiro changu cheIslam kunoita kuti ndinzwe ndakachengeteka pamberi pemeso aAllah (Mwari). Allah akavimbisa kuchengetedza vakadzi vanoteerera izwi rake nekupfeka hijab. Hijab murairo waAllah wekuzvininipisa, uye ndinofanira kuuteerera. Zvakare, ndikasapfeka hijab yangu, ndinorangwa nevabereki vangu nenharaunda yangu. Hijab chiziviso changu chechitendero uye chetsika. Iyo hijab inondidzivirirawo kubva mukukuvadzwa kwemuviri kunogona kubva kuvarume kana vamwe vakadzi. Saka, kupfeka chidzitiro cheIslam kunondiita kuti ndinzwe ndakachengeteka uye kunondipa pfungwa yekuchengeteka uye chinangwa.

Physiological Zvinodiwa: Ini ndinovimba nebasa rangu muresitorendi ino pane zvandinoda zvepanyama - pekugara, zvipfeko, chikafu, inishuwarenzi yehutano, dzidzo, zvichingodaro. Ndinotya kuti ndikadzingwa basa handichakwanisa kuriritira pachangu.

Belongingness / Isu / Team Spirit: Ndinofanira kunzwa kuti ndinogamuchirwa muresitorendi iyi zvisinei nekutenda kwangu kana chitendero changu. Dzimwe nguva ndinonzwa ndichisarurwa, uye vashandi vakawanda nevatengi vanoratidza ruvengo kwandiri. Ndinoda kuti vanhu vanzwe vakasununguka uye vabatane neni sezvandiri. Handisi gandanga. Ini ndinongova mukadzi wechidiki wechiMuslim anoda kuita chitendero chake uye kuchengeta hunhu hwandakarerwa nahwo kubva paudiki.

Kuzviremekedza / Kuremekedza: Ndinoda kuti uremekedze kodzero yangu iri muBumbiro reMitemo yekuita chitendero changu. Rusununguko rwechitendero rwakanyorwa muBumbiro reMitemo reUnited States. Saka, ndinoda kuti iwe uremekedze sarudzo yangu yekuziva kupfeka hijab yangu. Nenzira, hijab inoitawo kuti ndinzwe ndakanaka, ndichifara, ndakachena uye ndakasununguka. Iniwo ndinoda kuti iwe ubvume basa rose uye kuzvipira kwandakaita kuti ndibudirire uye kukura kweresitorendi iyi. Ndinoda kuti undione semunhu, mukadziwo zvake sevamwe vakadzi vemuresitorendi ino, kwete segandanga.

Bhizinesi Kukura / Purofiti / Kuzvigadzirisa: Kwemakore matanhatu apfuura, ndakaita basa rangu zvechokwadi uye nehunyanzvi kuitira kuti ndigone kugara muresitorendi iyi uye zvichida kukwidziridzwa kuva chinzvimbo chepamusoro. Saka, chinangwa changu ndechekubatsira mukukura kweresitorendi iyi ndichitarisira kuti ndicharamba ndichikohwa zvakanakira kushanda kwangu nesimba.

Mediation Project: Mediation Case Study yakagadzirwa na Basil Ugorji, 2016