Intsebenziswano yeenkolo ngeenkolo: Isimemo sazo zonke iinkolelo
INtsebenziswano yeeNkonzo eziManyeneyo: Isimemo sazo zonke iinkolelo kwi-ICERM Radio yasasazwa ngoMgqibelo, Agasti 13, 2016 @ 2 PM Eastern Time (eNew York).
2016 Summer Lecture Series
Umxholo: "Intsebenziswano yeenkolo ngeenkolo: Isimemo sazo zonke iinkolelo"
Undwendwe loMhlohli: Elizabeth Sink, iSebe leZifundo zoNxibelelwano, kwiYunivesithi yaseColorado State
Isiqendu:
Le ntetho igxile kwenye yezinto ezinkulu esixelelwa ukuba UNGAZE sithethe ngazo kwincoko echubekileyo. Hayi, nangona ingunyaka wonyulo, intetho ayithethi ngezopolitiko, okanye imali. U-Elizabeth Sink uthetha ngenkolo, ngokukodwa, intsebenziswano yeenkolo. Uqala ngokwabelana ngebali lakhe kunye nenxaxheba yakhe yobuqu kulo msebenzi. Emva koko, wabelana ngendlela abafundi abakwikhampasi yakhe kwiYunivesithi yaseColorado State abawela ngayo ukholo kunye neenkolelo kunye nokutshintsha amabali esiqhele ukuwava ngenkolo eMelika yaseMelika.
Ushicilelo lweNtetho
Isihloko sam namhlanje sesinye sezona zinto zinkulu sixelelwa ukuba UNGAZE sithethe ngazo kwincoko echubekileyo. Hayi, nangona ingunyaka wonyulo, andizukugxila kwezopolitiko, okanye imali. Kwaye nangona inokuba mnandi kakhulu, ayizukuba sisondo nayo. Namhlanje, ndiza kuthetha ngonqulo, ngokukodwa, ukusebenzisana kweenkolo ngeemvaba. Ndiza kuqala ngokwabelana ngebali lam kunye nendima yam yobuqu endinayo kulo msebenzi. Emva koko, ndiza kwabelana ngendlela abafundi bekhampasi yam kwiYunivesithi yaseColorado State abawela ngayo ukholo kunye neenkolelo kunye nokutshintsha amabali esiqhele ukuwava ngenkolo e-US America.
Ebomini bam, ndinezinto ezininzi zonqulo, ezibonakala ziphikisana. Esona sishwankathelo sifutshane kangangoko kunokwenzeka: kwada kwaba yiminyaka eyi-8, ndandingenalo unxulumano, ndashukunyiswa ngama-donuts amakhulu kwicawa yomhlobo wam. Ndikhawuleze ndagqiba kwelokuba icawe yinto yam. Ndatsalwa ngamaqela abantu abacula kunye, isiko elihlangeneyo, kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo bezama ukwenza ihlabathi libe yindawo engcono. Ndaba ngumKristu ozinikeleyo, ndaza ngoko ngokukhethekileyo, umKatolika. Ubume bam bonke bentlalontle babusekelwe kubuKristu bam. Ndandisiya ecaweni izihlandlo eziliqela ngeveki, ndincedise ekuqaliseni iqela lolutsha lamabanga aphakamileyo kunye noontanga bam, yaye ndincedisa uluntu lwethu kwiiprojekthi zenkonzo ezahlukeneyo. Izinto ezintle. Kodwa apha kulapho uhambo lwam lokomoya lwaqala khona ukuthabatha ithuba elibi.
Kangangeminyaka emininzi, bendikhetha ukubambelela kumgaqo wobufundamentali. Ngokukhawuleza ndaqalisa ukubasizela abangengawo amaKristu: ndizichasa iinkolelo zabo kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi ndizama ukubaguqula ngokuphandle-ukubasindisa kubo. Ngelishwa, ndanconywa ndaza ndavuzwa ngokuziphatha okunjalo, (kwaye ndingumntwana wokuqala), ngoko oku kwandomeleza ukuzimisela kwam. Kwiminyaka embalwa emva koko, kuhambo loqeqesho lobufundisi bolutsha, ndaye ndafumana amava okuyeka uguquko olunzulu, njengoko ndandiye ndazi ngomntu onengqondo ephangaleleyo kunye nentliziyo emxinwa endiye ndaba nguye. Ndaziva ndingxwelerhekile yaye ndididekile, yaye ndilandela umkhondo omkhulu wobomi, ndaqhubeka nokutyhola unqulo ngokwenzakala kwam nabo bonke ububi obusehlabathini.
Kwiminyaka elishumi emva kokuba ndilushiyile unqulo, ndibaleka yaye ndikhwaza, ndazibona sele ndinqwenela “icawa” kwakhona. Le yayiyipilisi encinci eshwabeneyo ukuba ndiyiginye ngakumbi kuba ndandichonga njengomntu ongakholelwa kuTixo. Thetha malunga ne-cognitive dissonance! Ndifumanise ukuba bendifuna eyona nto benditsalelwe kuyo ekuqaleni ndineminyaka esi-8 - iqela elinethemba labantu elijonge ukwenza umhlaba ube yindawo engcono.
Ke iminyaka engamashumi amathathu emva kokuba nditye idonathi yecawa yam yokuqala kwaye ndihamba kuhambo olunzima lokomoya ukuza kuthi ga ngoku - ngoku ndichonga njenge-Humanist. Ndiyaluqinisekisa uxanduva lomntu ukuphila ubomi obunentsingiselo nobusesikweni obunokongeza kwizinto ezilungileyo zoluntu, ngaphandle kokucingelwa kukaThixo. Ngokusisiseko, oku kuyafana nomntu ongakholelwayo kubukho bukaThixo, kodwa ngomyalelo wokuziphatha ophoswe ngaphakathi.
Kwaye, ungakholwa okanye ungakholwa, ndingumhambi ecaweni kwakhona, kodwa “ibandla” likhangeleka ngokwahlukileyo ngoku. Ndifumene ikhaya elitsha lokomoya kwiCawe yeUnitarian Universalist, apho ndihlala khona ecaleni kweqela labantu abachonga “njengababuyela elunqulweni,” amaBhuda, abangakholelwa kubukho bukaThixo, amaKrestu azalwe ngokutsha, amaPagani, amaYuda, ama-agnostics, njl. ayibotshwanga yimithetho yokholo, kodwa yimilinganiselo nezenzo.
Isizathu sokuba ndibelane nani ngebali lam kukuba ukuchitha ixesha kuzo zonke ezi zizazisi zahlukeneyo kwandikhuthaza ukuba ndiqalise inkqubo yentsebenziswano yeenkolo ngeenkolo eyunivesithi yam.
Libali lam ke elo. Kukho isifundo-iNkolo iquka ezona zinto zintle nezimbi kakhulu-kwaye bubudlelwane bethu, kwaye ngakumbi ubudlelwane bethu kwimizila yenkolo ethi ngokwezibalo ithobe isikali ukuya kokulungileyo. Xa kuthelekiswa namanye amazwe aphuhlileyo, i-US yenye yezona nkolo-i-60% yabantu baseMelika bathi inkolo yabo ibaluleke kakhulu kubo. Abantu abaninzi bonqulo batyale imali yokwenene ekwenzeni ihlabathi libe yindawo engcono. Enyanisweni, isiqingatha samavolontiya aseMelika kunye nokuphana kusekelwe kunqulo. Ngelishwa, uninzi lwethu luye lwabona unqulo lucinezela yaye luxhaphaza. Ngokwembali, unqulo belusetyenziswa ngeendlela ezoyikekayo ukoyisa abantu kuzo zonke iintlanga.
Into esiyibonayo eyenzekayo ngoku e-US yinguqu kunye nokwandisa i-gap (ingakumbi kwezopolitiko) phakathi kwabo bazijonga njengenkolo, kunye nabo bangenayo. Ngenxa yoko, kukho ukutyekela, ukugxeka elinye icala, ukuqhubela phambili ukuhlambalaza omnye komnye, kwaye sizahlule omnye komnye, nto leyo eyandisa ukwahlukana. Lo ngumfanekiso omfutshane wexesha lethu langoku kwaye AYIYOnkqubo ekhokelela kwikamva elinempilo.
Ndingathanda ngoku ukuqwalasela, okomzuzwana, kwicala elithi "OTHER" lalahlulahlulo, kwaye ndinazise kweyona ndawo ikhula ngokukhawuleza yenkolo eMelika. Olu luhlu luhlala lubizwa ngokuba "luMoya-kodwa-alukho-lweNkolo, "olungadibananga," okanye "alukho," uhlobo lwegama lokubamba elibandakanya, i-agnostics, abangakholelwa kuThixo, abantu, imimoya, amaPagan, kunye nabo bathi "akukho nto kuyo. ngokukodwa.” "I-1 / 5th engabandakanywanga yabantu baseMelika, kunye ne-1 / 3rd yabantu abadala abangaphantsi kwe-30, ababandakanyekanga ngokwenkolo, eyona pesenti iphezulu eyake yaphawulwa kwimbali yoPhando lwePew.
Okwangoku, malunga ne-70% yabantu baseMelika baseMelika bachonga njengamaKristu, kwaye ndisanda kukhankanya malunga ne-20% yokuchonga "njengabangenabudlelwane." Enye i-10% ibandakanya abo bachonga njengamaYuda, amaSilamsi, amaBuddha, amaHindu kunye nabanye. Ukubekwa amabala kukho phakathi kwezi ndidi, kwaye zihlala zisenza singakholelwa ukuba sinento esidibanisayo omnye nomnye. Ndiyakwazi ukuthetha nalo buqu. Ngoxa ndandilungiselela le ntetho, apho ndandiza “kuzigqabaza ngonqulo” njengomntu ongenguye umKristu, ndajamelana nala mabala. Ndaziva ndineentloni ngokutshintsha ukuthembeka kwam, kwaye ngoku ndibalwa phakathi kwabo ndakha ndachasa, ndabasizela, nabaxhatshazwayo. Ndandinoloyiko lokuba intsapho yam nebutho endandikhulele kulo laliza kuphoxeka yaye ndisoyika ukuba ndandiza kuphulukana nokuthembeka kubahlobo bam abangakumbi bonqulo. Kwaye ekujonganeni nezi mvakalelo, ngoku ndiyayibona indlela endihlala ndiyiphosela ngayo inzondelelo eyongezelelweyo kuyo yonke imizamo yam yokumanyanisa iimvaba, ukuze xa/ukuba unokufumanisa ngesazisi sam, ujonge ngobubele, ngenxa yawo wonke umsebenzi olungileyo endiwenzayo. yenza. (ndiyi1st wazalwa, ungatsho)?
Bendingazimiselanga ukuba le ntetho ijike ndibe “ndizikhupha ngokwenkolo” ngokwam. Obu buthathaka buyoyikisa. Okumangalisayo kukuba, bendingumfundisi wokuthetha esidlangalaleni kule minyaka ili-12 idlulileyo-ndifundisa ngokunciphisa ixhala, kwaye okwangoku ndikwinqanaba lokulwa-okanye-lokubhabha loyika ngoku. Kodwa, ezi mvakalelo zigxininisa indlela obaluleke ngayo lo myalezo.
Naphi na apho uzifumana ukwindawo yokomoya, ndikucela umngeni ukuba uhloniphe iinkolelo zakho kwaye uqonde ukuthanda kwakho, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu-inkolelo yakho kunye nokuthambekela kwakho akukuthinteli ukuba unqumle imigca yenkolo kwaye uzibandakanye. AKUKHO emdleni wethu (ngabanye okanye ngokudibeneyo) UKUHLALA kwesi sithuba sokubekwa ityala kunye nokuba wedwa. Ukwenza ubudlelwane nabantu beenkolelo ezahlukeneyo, ngokwezibalo, kwenza eyona mpembelelo ilungileyo kwingxabano yokuphilisa.
Ngoko makhe sijonge indlela esinokuqalisa ngayo ukubandakanyeka ngentlonelo.
Ngokusisiseko, intsebenziswano yeenkolo/okanye iinkolo ngeemvaba ixhomekeke kumgaqo wenkolo eninzi. Umbutho wesizwe obizwa ngokuba yi-Interfaith Youth Core, uchaza ukuba neenkolo ezininzi:
- Ukuhlonitshwa kwabantu ngeempawu ezahlukeneyo zenkolo nezingezizo ezenkolo,
- Ubudlelwane obukhuthazayo phakathi kwabantu beemvelaphi ezahlukeneyo,
- kunye nesenzo esiqhelekileyo sokulunga kwabantu bonke.
Intsebenziswano yeemvaba ngeemvaba sisenzo seNkolo ezininzi. Ukwamkela iingqondo ezininzi kuvumela ukuthamba endaweni yokuqina kweembono. Lo msebenzi usifundisa ubuchule bokuhamba ngaphaya kokunyamezelana nje, usifundisa ulwimi olutsha, kwaye ngalo siyakwazi ukuguqula amabali aphindaphindiweyo esiva kumajelo eendaba, ukusuka kwingxabano ukuya kwintsebenziswano. Ndiyavuya ukwabelana ngaleli bali lilandelayo lempumelelo yeenkolo ezahlukeneyo, lenzeka kwikhampasi yam.
Ndingumhlohli wekholeji kwicandelo leZifundo zoNxibelelwano, ngoko ndiye ndaya kumasebe aliqela kwiyunivesiti yam kawonke-wonke, ndicela inkxaso yekhosi yezemfundo malunga nentsebenziswano yeenkolo ngeenkolo, ekugqibeleni, ngentwasahlobo ka-2015, uluntu lwethu lokufunda eyunivesithi lwasamkela isicelo sam. . Kuyandivuyisa ukunika ingxelo yokuba iiklasi ezimbini zeemvaba ngeemvaba, ezibhalise abafundi abangama-25, ziye zalingwa kwisiqingatha sonyaka ophelileyo. Ngokukhethekileyo, abafundi abakwezi klasi, ezichongiweyo njengeEvangelical Christian, Cultural Catholic, “kinda” Mormon, abangakholelwayo kubukho bukaThixo, amaAgnostic, amaSilamsi, nabanye abambalwa. Aba bayityuwa yehlabathi, abalungisi.
Sikunye, sasisiya kwizindlu zonqulo zamaSilamsi nezamaYuda. Sifunde kwizithethi zeendwendwe ezabelana ngobunzima bazo kunye nolonwabo. Sikhuthaze amaxesha okuqonda obekudingeka kakhulu malunga nezithethe. Umzekelo, elinye ixesha leklasi, ababini babahlobo bam abakhulu beBandla likaYesu Krestu labaNgcwele beMihla yokuGqibela, beza kwaye baphendula wonke umbuzo omnye owawubuzwa kubo liqela lam elilangazelelayo leminyaka eli-19 ubudala. Lo nto ayithethi ukuba wonke umntu ulishiye igumbi ngokuvumelana, oko kuthetha ukuba sishiye igumbi ngokuqonda okunyanisekileyo. Kwaye ihlabathi lifuna okungaphezulu koko.
Abafundi bacinga ngemibuzo enzima efana nothi “Ngaba zonke iicawa zinento enye?” (Hayi!) yaye “Siqhubela njani phambili xa sisandul’ ukuqaphela ukuba asinako zombini u right?"
Njengeklasi, sakhonza. Ngokusebenzisana namanye amaqela eenkolo zabafundi, siye sayeka inkonzo eyimpumelelo “yokubulela iinkolo ngeenkolo ezihlukeneyo”. Ngenkxaso yemali yeBhunga lethu leenkolo zaseFort Collins lasekuhlaleni kunye neminye imibutho, abafundi bapheka isidlo soMbulelo sekosher, esingenagluten-free kunye neenketho zevegan kubantu abangaphezu kwe-160.
Ekupheleni kwesiqingatha sonyaka, abafundi bagqabaza:
“...Zange ndiqaphele ukuba baninzi abantu abangakholelwayo kuTixo, kuba andizange ndiqonde ukuba abantu abangakholelwayo kuTixo bafana nam. Ngenxa yesizathu esingaqhelekanga, ndandicinga ukuba umntu ongakholelwayo kubukho bukaThixo uya kukhangeleka njengesazinzulu esiphambeneyo.”
“Ndothukile kukuba nomsindo kwabo ndifunda nabo ngezinye zezinto abakholelwa kuzo… Le yayiyinto eyathetha nam kuba ndiye ndabona ukuba ndinomkhethe ngakumbi kunokuba bendicinga.”
“Ukumanyana kweemvaba kwandifundisa indlela yokuphila kumchankcatho ophakathi kweenkonzo ezahlukahlukeneyo kungekhona kwicala elikude lelinye.”
Ekugqibeleni, inkqubo iyimpumelelo ngokwembono yabafundi kunye nolawulo; kwaye iya kuqhubeka, ngethemba lokwandiswa kwiminyaka embalwa ezayo.
Ndiyathemba ukuba namhlanje ndiyibethelele into yokuba, ngokuchaseneyo nenkolelo eqhelekileyo, unqulo yinto esifanele sithethe ngayo. Xa siqala ukuqonda ukuba abantu benkolelo YONKE benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuze baphile ubomi obulungileyo kunye nokuziphatha okuhle, KUKHO apho ibali litshintsha khona. Singcono kunye.
Ndiyakucela umngeni ukuba wenze umhlobo omtsha nomntu oneenkolelo zokomoya ezahlukeneyo kunawe kwaye kunye, sitshintshe ibali. Kwaye ungawalibali ama-donuts!
Elizabeth Sink usuka kuMbindi-ntshona, apho wathweswa isidanga ngo-1999 ngesidanga se-Bachelors kwi-Interdisciplinary Communication Studies kwiKholeji yase-Aquinas, e-Grand Rapids, e-Michigan. Ugqibe isiDanga sakhe seMasters kwiZifundo zoNxibelelwano kwiYunivesithi yaseColorado State ngo-2006 kwaye ebefundisa apho ukusukela ngoko.
Izifundo zakhe zangoku, ukufundisa, inkqubo kunye nophuhliso lwekharityhulamu kuthathela ingqalelo imeko yethu yangoku yenkcubeko/yentlalo/ezopolitiko kunye nokuqhubela phambili iindlela zonxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu abahlukeneyo benkolo/abangakholwayo. Unomdla kwindlela imfundo ephakamileyo esekelwe kuluntu echaphazela ngayo inkuthazo yabafundi yokubandakanyeka kwiindawo abahlala kuzo, iimbono malunga nemibono yabo ecala kunye / okanye eyahlukanisiweyo, ukuqonda ukuzimela, kunye neenkqubo zokucinga ezibukhali.
