I-Islamic Veil Conflict endaweni yokudlela

Kwenzenjani? Isizinda Somlando Sengxabano

I-Islamic Veil Conflict iwukungqubuzana kwenhlangano okwenzeke endaweni yokudlela ezinze eNew York phakathi kwe-restaurant General Manager kanye ne-Front-of-the-House Manager (eyaziwa nangokuthi i-Maître d'hôtel). I-Front-of-the-House Manager owesifazane osemusha ongumSulumane ongomunye wezisebenzi ezindala kakhulu zale ndawo yokudlela futhi okwathi ngenxa yezinkolelo zakhe eziqinile zenkolo nezimiso zokuziphatha, wavunyelwa ngesikhathi sokuqashwa nguMphathi Jikelele wokuqala wale ndawo. indawo yokudlela ukuze agqoke iveyili yakhe yamaSulumane (noma isikhafu) emsebenzini. I-Front-of-the-House Manager ivame ukubonakala kule ndawo yokudlela njengesisebenzi esingcono kakhulu ngenxa yezimiso zokuziphatha emsebenzini, ubudlelwano obuhle nozakwabo kanye namakhasimende, kanye nokuzinikela ekuzuzeni imiphumela emihle. Kodwa-ke, umnikazi wendawo yokudlela usanda kuqasha iMenenja-jikelele entsha (owesilisa) ukuthi angene esikhundleni sikaMenenja Jikelele ophumayo (oshiye phansi wayovula eyakhe indawo yokudlela kwelinye idolobha). IMenenja-Jikelele entsha yaqashwa ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokudubula kwesixuku saseSan Bernardino eCalifornia. Njengoba ukuhlasela kwamaphekula kwenziwa ontamolukhuni ababili bamaSulumane (owesifazane oyedwa nendoda eyodwa), iMenenja Jikelele entsha yendawo yokudlela yayala uMphathi oPhakeme weNdlu ukuthi ayeke ukugqoka iveyili yakhe yamaSulumane ukuze asebenze. Wenqaba ukulalela umyalo weMenenja Jikelele waqhubeka nokugqoka iveli emsebenzini, ethi usefake iveyili yakhe endaweni yokudlela iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-6 ngaphandle kwenkinga. Lokhu kubangele ukungqubuzana okungathi sína phakathi kwabasebenzi ababili abasezikhundleni eziphezulu zendawo yokudlela - iMenenja-Jikelele entsha ngakolunye uhlangothi, kanye noMphathi oPhambili weNdlu ngakolunye.

Izindaba Zomunye nomunye - ukuthi umuntu ngamunye usiqonda kanjani isimo nokuthi kungani

I-General Manager's Indaba – Uyinkinga

Isikhundla: Umphathi we-Front-of-the-House KUMELE AYEKE ukufaka iveyili yakhe ye-Islamic kule ndawo yokudlela.

Izintshisekelo:

Ukuphepha / Ukuphepha: Ngifuna amakhasimende ethu azizwe ephephile uma ezodla futhi aphuze endaweni yethu yokudlela. Ukubona umphathi oyi-Muslim ozimbozile endaweni yethu yokudlela kungase kwenze amakhasimende azizwe engakhululekile, engavikelekile, futhi esolisayo. Ukwanda kokuhlasela kwamaphekula kwamaSulumane, ikakhulukazi ukuhlasela kwamaphekula endaweni yokudlela eParis, kanye nokudubula kwabantu abaningi eSan Bernardino eCalifornia, ingasaphathwa eyesaba ukuthi ukuhlasela kwamaphekula ngo-9/11 kuye kwavusa izingqondo zabantu baseNew York. amakhasimende azizwa engavikelekile uma ekubona umbozwe ngeveyili yamaSulumane endaweni yethu yokudlela.

Izidingo Zomzimba: Mina nomndeni wami sincike emsebenzini wami kule ndawo yokudlela ngezidingo zethu zomzimba - izindlu, izingubo zokugqoka, ukudla, umshwalense wezempilo, njalo njalo. Ngakho-ke, ngifuna ukwenza konke ukwanelisa amakhasimende ethu ukuze ngigcine amadala futhi ngikhuthaze amasha ukuthi abuye. Uma amakhasimende ethu eyeka ukuza, indawo yokudlela yethu izovala. Angifuni ukuphelelwa umsebenzi.

Ubungane / Thina / Umoya Wethimba: Ngokugqoka iveli yakho yamaSulumane, ubukeka uhluke ngokuphelele kithi sonke, futhi ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uzizwa uhlukile. Ngifuna uzizwe ungowalapha; ukuthi uyingxenye yethu; nokuthi sonke siyefana. Uma ugqoka njengathi, abasebenzi namakhasimende ngeke bakubheke ngendlela ehlukile.

Ukuzethemba / Ukuhlonipha: Ngaqashwa ukuthi ngibambele uMphathi-Jikelele ophumayo ngenxa yerekhodi lami, isipiliyoni, amakhono obuholi, nokwahlulela okuhle. NjengoMphathi-Jikelele wale ndawo yokudlela, ngidinga ukuthi wazise isikhundla sami, wazi ukuthi ngilawula futhi ngiphethe ukuphathwa kwansuku zonke, ukusebenza kanye nemisebenzi yale ndawo yokudlela. Ngifuna futhi ukuthi ungihloniphe kanye nezinqumo engizenzayo ukuze ngizuze indawo yokudlela, abasebenzi kanye namakhasimende.

Ukukhula Kwebhizinisi / Inzuzo / Ukuzenza Ongokoqobo: Kuyintshisekelo yami ukwenza konke engingakwenza ukuze ngikhulise le ndawo yokudlela. Uma indawo yokudlela ikhula futhi iphumelela, sonke sizojabulela izinzuzo. Ngifuna nokuhlala kule ndawo yokudlela ngethemba lokuthi ngerekhodi lami elihle lokuphatha, ngingakhushulelwa esikhundleni sokuphatha esifundeni.

Indaba Yomphathi Wangaphambili Kwendlu – Uyinkinga:

Isikhundla: NGEKE ngiyeke ukugqoka iveyili yami yamaSulumane kule ndawo yokudlela.

Izintshisekelo:

Ukuphepha / Ukuphepha: Ukugqoka iveyili yami yamaSulumane kungenza ngizizwe ngiphephile phambi kwamehlo ka-Allah (uNkulunkulu). U-Allah wathembisa ukuvikela abesifazane abalalela izwi lakhe ngokugqoka i-hijab. I-Hijab iwumyalo ka-Allah wokuthobeka, futhi kufanele ngiwuthobele. Futhi, uma ngingayigqoki i-hijab yami, ngizojeziswa abazali bami nomphakathi wakithi. I-Hijab ingubunikazi bami benkolo namasiko. I-hijab iphinde ingivikele ekulimaleni ngokomzimba okungavela emadodeni noma kwabanye besifazane. Ngakho, ukugqoka iveli yamaSulumane kungenza ngizizwe ngiphephile futhi kunginika umuzwa wokulondeka nenjongo.

Izidingo Zomzimba: Ngincike emsebenzini wami kule ndawo yokudlela ngezidingo zami zomzimba - indlu, izingubo zokugqoka, ukudla, umshwalense wezempilo, imfundo, njalo njalo. Nginovalo lokuthi uma ngixoshwa ngeke ngikwazi ukuhlinzeka ngezidingo zami ngokushesha.

Ubungane / Thina / Umoya Wethimba: Ngidinga ukuzwa ukuthi ngamukelekile kule ndawo yokudlela ngokunganaki ukholo noma inkolelo yami yenkolo. Ngezinye izikhathi ngizizwa ngibandlululwa, futhi izisebenzi eziningi namakhasimende babonisa uhlobo oluthile lwenzondo kimi. Ngifuna abantu bazizwe bekhululekile futhi baxhumane nami njengoba nginjalo. Angilona iphekula. Ngimane nje ngingowesifazane osemusha ovamile ongumSulumane ofuna ukuqhuba inkolo yakhe nokugcina izindinganiso engikhuliswe ngazo kusukela ebuntwaneni.

Ukuzethemba / Inhlonipho: Ngidinga ukuthi uhloniphe ilungelo lami elikuMthethosisekelo lokusebenzisa inkolo yami. Inkululeko yenkolo ibhaliwe kuMthethosisekelo wase-United States. Ngakho-ke, ngifuna uhloniphe isinqumo sami sokugqoka i-hijab yami. Ngendlela, i-hijab ingenza ngizizwe ngimuhle, ngijabule, ngimsulwa futhi ngikhululekile. Ngidinga futhi ukuthi ubonge wonke umsebenzi nokuzidela engikwenzile ukuze ngiphumelele nokukhula kwale ndawo yokudlela. Ngifuna ungiqaphele njengomuntu, owesifazane ojwayelekile njengabanye abantu besifazane kule ndawo yokudlela, hhayi njengephekula.

Ukukhula Kwebhizinisi / Inzuzo / Ukuzenza Ongokoqobo: Kule minyaka engu-6 edlule, ngenze umsebenzi wami ngobuqotho nangobungcweti ukuze ngikwazi ukuhlala kule ndawo yokudlela futhi ngokunokwenzeka ngikhushulelwe esikhundleni esiphezulu sokuphatha. Ngakho-ke, umgomo wami uwukufaka isandla ekukhuleni kwale ndawo yokudlela ngethemba lokuthi ngizoqhubeka nokuvuna izinzuzo zokuzikhandla kwami.

Iphrojekthi Yokulamula: Indaba Yokulamula ithuthukiswe ngu Basil Ugorji, 2016