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Lokhu kungqubuzana kuzungeza u-Botham Jean, usomabhizinisi oneminyaka engama-26 ubudala owaphothula e-Harding University e-Arkansas. Ungowokuzalwa e-St. Lucia futhi wayenesikhundla nenkampani yabaxhumanisi, futhi wayekhuthele esontweni lakubo njengomfundisi weBhayibheli kanye nelungu lekhwaya. U-Amber Guyger, iphoyisa elineminyaka engu-31 ubudala loMnyango Wamaphoyisa waseDallas owayesebenze iminyaka emi-4 futhi enomlando omude oxhumene nomlando waseDallas.

Ngomhla ziyisi-8 kuMandulo wezi-2018, isikhulu u-Amber Guyger safika ekhaya sivela emsebenzini wamahora ayi-12-15. Lapho ebuyela emzini wakhe ayekholelwa ukuthi kwakungowakubo, wabona umnyango ungavalwanga ngokuphelele futhi wakholwa ngokushesha ukuthi ugetshengwa. Ebonisa ukwesaba, wadubula kabili esibhamini sakhe wadubula uBotham Jean, washona. U-Amber Guyger uthinte amaphoyisa ngemuva kokudubula u-Botham Jean, futhi ngokusho kwakhe, kwaba yilapho ebona khona ukuthi wayengekho efulethini elifanele. Lapho ebuzwa amaphoyisa, wathi wabona indoda endlini yakhe enebanga elingamamitha angu-30 nje kuphela phakathi kwabo bobabili futhi nayo ingaphenduli ngesikhathi esifanele, wazivikela. U-Botham Jean washonela esibhedlela futhi ngokusho kwemithombo, u-Amber wasebenzisa imikhuba emincane ye-CPR emzamweni wokusindisa impilo ka-Botham.

Ngemva kwalokhu, u-Amber Guyger wakwazi ukufakaza eNkantolo evulekile. Ubebhekene neminyaka emihlanu kuya kwengu-5 ejele ngecala lokubulala. Kube nengxoxo yokuthi uma Imfundiso Yenqaba or Misa Isisekelo Sakho imithetho yayisetshenziswa kodwa njengoba u-Amber engene efulethini elingalungile, akabange esazisekela isenzo esenziwa ku-Botham Jean. Basekele ukusabela okungenzeka uma isigameko senzeke ngokuphambene, okusho ukuthi u-B Botham udubula u-Amber ngokungena endlini yakhe.

Ngaphakathi enkantolo ngosuku lokugcina lwecala lokubulala, umfowabo kaBotham Jean, uBrandt, wamanga u-Amber isikhathi eside futhi wamxolela ngokubulala umfowabo. Wacaphuna uNkulunkulu wathi unethemba lokuthi u-Amber uya kuNkulunkulu ngazo zonke izinto ezimbi okungenzeka wazenza. Uveze ukuthi umfunela okuhle u-Amber ngoba yilokho uBotham abengakufuna. Wasikisela ukuthi kufanele anikele ngokuphila kwakhe kuKristu futhi wabuza uMahluleli ukuthi angagona yini u-Amber. IJaji likuvumele. Ngemva kwalokho, iJaji lanikeza u-Amber ibhayibheli lamgona naye. Umphakathi awuzange ukujabulele ukubona ukuthi umthetho usuthambile ku-Amber kanti umama kaBotham Jean waphawula ukuthi uthemba ukuthi u-Amber uthatha iminyaka engu-10 ezayo ukuthi azindle futhi aguqule impilo yakhe.

Izindaba Zomunye nomunye - ukuthi umuntu ngamunye usiqonda kanjani isimo nokuthi kungani

U-Brandt Jean (Umfowabo ka-Botham)

Isikhundla: Inkolo yami iyangivumela ukuthi ngikuxolele naphezu kwezenzo zakho kumfowethu.

Izintshisekelo:

Ukuphepha/Ukuvikeleka: Angizizwa ngiphephile futhi lokhu bekungaba noma ubani, ngisho nami. Kunofakazi ababone lokhu kwenzeka kumfowethu futhi babamba ingxenye yalokhu ngokuqopha. Ngibonga ukuthi bakwazile ukuqopha nokukhulumela umfowethu.

Identity/Esteem: Nakuba ngiphatheke kabi futhi ngibuhlungu ngale nto, ngiyakuhlonipha ukuthi umfowethu ubengafuni ngibe nenzondo ngalo wesifazane ngenxa yokufika kwakhe isikhathi esifushane. Kufanele ngiqhubeke nokuhlonipha nokulandela izwi likaNkulunkulu. Mina nomfowethu singamadoda kaKristu futhi sizoqhubeka sithanda futhi sihloniphe bonke noma abafowethu nodadewethu kuKristu.

Ukukhula/Ukuthethelela: Njengoba ngingenakukwazi ukubuyisela umfowethu, ngingalandela inkolo yami ngemizamo yokuba nokuthula. Lesi isigameko esiyisipiliyoni sokufunda futhi esimvumela ukuba abe nesikhathi sokuzindla; kuzoholela ekuncishisweni kwezigameko ezifanayo eziphinde zenzeke.

U-Amber Guyger - Isikhulu

Isikhundla: ngangesaba. Wayengumuntu ongenele, ngicabanga.

Izintshisekelo:

Ukuphepha/Ukuvikeleka: Njengephoyisa siqeqeshelwe ukuvikela. Njengoba amafulethi ethu anesakhiwo esifanayo, kunzima ukubona imininingwane engasho ukuthi leli fulethi bekungelona elami. Bekumnyama ngaphakathi endlini. Futhi, ukhiye wami wasebenza. Ukhiye wokusebenza usho ukuthi ngisebenzisa isihluthulelo esilungile nenhlanganisela yokhiye.

Identity/Esteem: Njengephoyisa, kunegama elibi mayelana neqhaza jikelele. Kuvame ukuba nemiyalezo ethusayo nezenzo eziwuphawu lokungathembani kwesakhamuzi kulo mkhakha. Njengoba lokho kuyisici sobunikazi bami, ngihlala ngiqaphile ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Ukukhula/Ukuthethelela: Ngibonga amaqembu ngokwanga kanye nezinto abanginike zona futhi bahlela ukuzibonakalisa. Nginesigwebo esifushane futhi ngizokwazi ukuhlala phansi nalokho engikwenzile futhi ngicabangele izinguquko ezingenziwa esikhathini esizayo ingabe ngizovunyelwa yini esinye isikhundla kwezomthetho.